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A new article in Details magazine talks about women who supposedly trick men into having babies with them--the idea being, as one expert says, that "any guy with a heart and soul, and preferably with a job" will melt when he sees the baby on the sonogram or hears the heartbeat.
JD's dad has a heart, soul, college degree and job. He's never met his son and bailed when I was weeks pregnant and I didn't trick him into anything. In the articleIan Daly writes about year-old Matt Dubay who maintains he was duped into fatherhood and has hired a lawyer to attempt to get out of paying child support.
Dubay argues he couldn't force his girlfriend to abort and because she had told him all along she Tricked into fatherhood infertile, yet still taking birth control just to be extra-safethere was no way possible he thought he could get her pregnant, and therefore he should not be financially responsible for his .
Here's my question to Matt: Why weren't you wearing a condom? Women are constantly told to be smart and protect themselves--shouldn't guys protect themselves too and not leave the chances of reproduction up to the woman? Newsflash: We're not getting ourselves pregnant!
I mean, ladies, do you rely solely on condoms, therefore making it the guy's job to prevent pregnancy? I agree it's horrible that some women deliberately lie to their guys with the complete intension of getting pregnant but I also think it's a pretty convenient argument for someone who doesn't want to pay child support. Guys lie too. They tell you they are excited about the baby, then they bail when you're weeks pregnant and shut off their phone. And yes, we can file for child support, but we can't force the guy to help potty train the child or wake up at 2 Tricked into fatherhood.
Well Jeremy, I have a guy friend who has sole custody of his son because the mother couldn't handle the situation.
Why is it his responsibility and obligation? We're arguing about innocent children here. Sometimes I just want to smack people and say something like: "Wake up! It's a baby! It's not war or cancer or anything else remotely horrible. Get a grip! Do you know anyone who tricked their guy into fatherhood?
Just because a woman blatantly lied to her guy about protecting herself, does that mean he shouldn't have to pay child support or be in the kid's life? Can't the same argument hold up for the woman who had sex with the guy who "promised to pull out" or the condom broke, and those methods failed? This is just messy--I can't wait to read your comments. Keep talking: What is your choice of birth control?
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